Reaching Out

Just had lunch with these three beautiful, intelligent, special women. I was invited to join them as they got together do discuss, support and share with one another as well as to further develop a true friendship that has taken ahold. I was humbled in their presence partaking in the generosity of their hearts. While all three are people I consider friends our paths crossed when they each at different times became my patients. Each of these women has been and are on their hearing journey that has led them to the decision for cochlear implantation. While the paths that led each of them have been different there has also been a commonality amongst them. These are strong, determined, intelligent people that have a will to succeed, they are positive thinking fighters, fighting for better hearing.

In this group Tammy was the first to take on this challenge and as her hearing changed she dove in with both feet determined to do better, to be better, to excel. There was going to be no stopping this woman from regaining her ability to use hearing as a part of her life. Tammy was such a success with her implant because of her attitude and hard work as well as her intellect.

Ann was such a similar soul capable and brilliant. Someone who simply had found ways that might seem improbable to navigate the hearing world with a significant hearing impairment. Ann’s stories of strategies for compensating for her loss still make me laugh at the creativity with which she managed life never hiding from her loss but facing it in a bold way. The beauty of this story is that when Ann was considering a Cochlear implant it was Tammy who was such a wonderful and powerful influence in helping Ann to take on this challenge. Interestingly both these individuals have enjoyed great and measureable success with their implants.

Tamara the third individual in this group is another brilliant young woman that amazes me with her accomplishments inspite of her significant hearing impairment that has been a part of her life from birth. From the time I met her I was amazed by her apparent ability to function so “normally” knowing the degree of her loss. I have come to appreciate the tenacity with which this woman approaches life taking on challenges head on not willing to accept the unacceptable. At this meeting both Tammy and Ann were meeting with Tamara to encourage and support her as she had also just had the surgery for a cochlear implant and are going to continue to support her as she follows in their footsteps on this journey to hear.

It was with such joy that I spent my lunch talking with these friends feeling encouraged in my own journey as they shared their experiences. The lessons for me were not necessarily simply about Cochlear implantation but were about life and the goodness of the human soul. The message to me was about being willing to support each other even as total strangers taking the chance to become meaningful friends. Watching these women I have learned about determination, about overcoming about digging deep but most of all about reaching out.